Barry’s Blog
Creating the Life of Your Dreams
Creating the life of your dreams requires more than setting goals or following a plan; it's about connecting with your deepest self and embracing all your dimensions. In our daily routines, it's easy to lose sight of this especially the various roles we assume ie...
Enjoying the Upcoming Holiday Season without Overindulging
Holidays bring joy, togetherness, and let's be real—plenty of tempting treats! However, for many, the season also brings a challenge: staying disciplined with health, fitness, or other personal goals. Balancing indulgence with discipline is key to enjoying the season...
Blind ways you’re causing yourself stress
Stress is a sneaky companion that often finds its way into our lives without us noticing. While many of us can pinpoint the big stressors—like work deadlines or financial worries—there are smaller, subtler habits we engage in every day that silently amplify our stress...
Hard Truths of Life: Embracing Reality for Personal Growth
Life isn't always easy, and there are some hard truths we all must face at one point or another. (I have always said, no one goes through life unscathed?! ) While these truths can be difficult to accept, they hold the key to personal growth, resilience, and lasting...
Don’t Lose Yourself in a Relationship: A Guide to Staying Grounded
Relationships can be a beautiful and rewarding part of life. However, it's not uncommon for individuals to lose themselves in the process of building and maintaining these connections. When intimacy is involved, it's common to also become jaded as oxytocin is released...
How to Strengthen your Memory
As we age, it's important to not only consider our physical health but also our cognitive health. "After the age of 65, the risk of cognitive decline doubles every five years, with nearly one-third of people aged 85 and older being affected by some form of cognitive...
Fun things to do outside of being on your phone
These days it's so easy to feel like our phones and TVs are our only source of entertainment. If you're feeling a little too attached to screens or social media, let me offer up some options instead: Get Active: You can grab a friend or take time to yourself. There...
How to Face Your Fears in a Relationship
Fear is a natural part of being human, especially in relationships where emotions run deep and vulnerability is high. Whether you fear getting hurt, being rejected, losing independence, or even losing the person you love, these fears can create barriers that prevent a...
Recognizing and Avoiding Self Sabotage
Do you ever wonder why you do that one thing that sets you up for failure? Have you ever considered maybe you're self-sabotaging? Self-sabotage is often rooted in various psychological, emotional, and social factors. Fear of failure (or even success), subconsciously...